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When Dave married Sue, his high school sweetheart, he envisioned the typical marriage scenario. He dreamed of a big house with a white picket fence, a couple of kids, career growth, prosperity, grandkids, retirement and maybe even adjacent burial plots.

That was 25 years ago.

Now their youngest child left for college and Sue filed for divorce.

It’s a sad fact that divorce rates are rising all the time. So the older you are, the more likely you are to be looking for a new partner. However, most men who have spent almost a generation of their lives in a marriage only to find themselves slightly past their youth are terrified of the idea of trying to re-enter the world of dating. Once their chins and chests sag, their hips or waist thicken, and their bellies rise, the concept of flirting, let alone trying to find a new romantic partner, seems like a world that has passed them by.

They say, “I can’t go on a date. I’m over 40 and I surely do not look like I did when I was younger!”

As the dating tips master I’ve heard this over and over again. And even though some might think by the time a man gets closer to or exceeds the mid-century mark, he’d have his game down. But, based on my own experience, it isn’t necessarily the truth.
You just need some sage reminders on how to improve the quality of your love life

Here Are My Top 5 Dating After 40 Tips to Help You
Skyrocket Your Success with Sexy Women:

Dating tip #1: Don’t date. Yes, you heard me right; I said don’t date. Think about a traditional -date.- It’s full of pressure, awkwardness, evaluation and it just plain sucks. What do you do on a traditional date? Dinner, movie, kiss goodnight, and then she doesn’t return your calls. Trust me, it’s much better (and cheaper) to meet for coffee. It’s fun and relaxed with none of the normal dating expectations.

Dating tip #2: The less you do and say, the more she’s attracted to you. Most guys try to impress sexy women, or -lay a rap- on them. Sexy women have heard it all before. But, if you ask her about herself, shut up and listen, and display a SMALL degree of interest, she’ll begin to wonder why you’re not slobbering all over her. She’ll want to discover more. Now you’re a challenge, and sexy women love challenging guys.

Dating tip #3: Be a gentleman but also be a -naughty little boy.- Remember the -class clown- in elementary school-the guy who was cool and funny all at the same time? When you’re talking to sexy women, make unexpected and mischievous comments. Leave them thinking, -I can’t believe he just said that- but I like it.- This shows sexy women you’re NOT impressed by their looks and you need to see more. And because this is so different from what they’re used to, they can’t help but be attracted. I cannot emphasize the importance of this dating tip.

Dating tip #4: Avoid all canned pick up lines or any type of acting. Sexy women have heard it all before. As soon as you spout one, you’re instantly what I call a JAG (just another guy). And JAG’s don’t get sexy women!

Dating tip #5: Look out for her tests. Sexy women will test you to see if you’ll stand up to them. If you can’t stand up to her, you can’t stand up for her. If she asks you to buy her things, that’s a test. It’s also a perfect opportunity to be a naughty little boy as described in dating tip #3. Say something like, -What do I look like an ATM machine? You should buy ME something, just for the privilege of spending time with me. I like sexy women who buy me things!- Say this in a playful, yet firm manner that lets her know you’re onto her. When you pass their tests, it drives sexy women wild with desire.

Obviously there are lots of other dating tips, tricks and secrets you can put to use to grab a hold of the sexy woman of your dreams and never let her go. But if you pay attention to these dating tips, you’ll be a whole lot more successful with sexy women. I guarantee it. So, go re-read all the dating tips again and start having more fun on your dating adventures!

How To Be Indie

First of all, if you need to read a guide on the internet to become indie, then you have a long way to go. But luckily for you, you were smart enough to come to me, lumberjack. Throughout my years of clear cutting virgin forests and other unsustainable logging, I have come to be somewhat of an expert on indie culture. And I’m going to pass it on to you!My indie fashion advice is topknotch if I do say so myself.

How to Dress Indie

Indie Fashion:

You don’t have to “Suffer for Fashion” like of Montreal to be indie. Rather, indie clothing is some of the best clothing available today!

The basics of dressing indie:
Tops:
Cardigans, ironic indie tees, flannel shirts, plain fitted t-shirts, vintage hoodies

Bottoms:
Skinny jeans, corduroys, skirts, fitted jeans, etc.

Shoes:
Converse, Vans, Nike Dunks, Moccasins, Boat/Deck shoes, “Vintage” Adidas and Puma

Outerwear:
Corduroy jackets, Members jackets, vintage leather, peacoats

Accessories:
Bracelets, necklaces, pins, headphones, interesting bags

Alright, now that we have the basics down I will delve deeper into indie fashion.

Indie Tops

I would stay away from cardigans if you’re a guy. Though they are considered indie, they also make you look like a grandma. Girls will say they look good on you, but what they are really implying is that you remind them of granny back home. You can be indie without being stripped of your sexuality, so guys just say not to cardigans. Cardigans are fine on girls, however.

Flannel is the epitome of indie in my humble (ya right lol) opinion. To truly be indie you need to stock up on whatever flannel/plaid you can find. It’s great buttoned up, or unbuttoned over your favorite ironic indie shirt.

Fitted solid-color t-shirts and vintage t-shirts/hoodies are indie as well. Target has some great solid-tees, so you don’t have to spend much. For the vintage, check out your local vintage retailers and thriftshops.
Indie Bottoms

You don’t have to wear skinny jeans to be indie if you’re a guy, but if you’re a girl and they are flattering then skinny jeans are practically a must. Guys can go for anything that is fitted well, just stay away from baggy carpenter’s and unflattering styles. Levi’s 511 are good.

Corduroy is great, and will keep you warm in the cold winter months. Stores like H&M or Urban Outfitters typically have a good selection of cords. Again, thriftshops may have some gems as well.

Girls, for skirts anything that looks good on you is A OK!!
Indie Shoes

Okay, shoes are where it is at!! I’ll start with Converse. Though hipsters might complain that Converse has sold out since they are owned by Nike, they are still very fashionable and look good on everyone! Converse Allstars that is. Stay clear of that Converse Onestar bull that Target tries to push on you, and stick to the classic Chuck Taylors. Emos might have hijacked Converse, but your indie self can pull them off.

Vans, quite frankly, are the espresso. Vans Authentics and Vans Off The Walls are both completely viables candidates for indie shoewear. You can get slipons in almost any colors, as well as plaid and checkered! Check out the Zapatos del Barco, those are some of my favorite.

Moccasins and boat shoes add a touch of class to your indie wardrobe. Moccasins can be purchased online, just Google them. Zappos has some nice ones in stock. As for boat shoes, Sperry Topsiders are wonderful. It’s rumored that Moses, the indiest guy who ever lived, owned a pair. Aside from lumberjacking, sailing is one of the most manliest professions and boat shoes just scream “Hey I’m indie, I’m a man, and I’m proud!” That’s not to say that girls can’t where boat shoes, they look cute on ya’ll too!!

Lastly, both Puma and Adidas have “Vintage” lines with lots of colors. Green retro kicks are quite indie.

Indie Outerwear

Basically, just wear something fairly noncommercial. Peacots, Member’s Only jackets, vintage leather jackets… it’s all pretty self explanatory. Plus, if you’re feeling adventurous, you could even rock a poncho – just like the man with no name (most bad indie who ever indied).

Indie Accessories

Accessories can make or break your indie wardrobe, so listen carefully. Girls, you’re on your own as far as bracelets and necklaces go. I’m a dude, I have no idea. Try Etsy.com for some handcrafted jewlery.

Messenger bags are preferable to backpacks. You can get them in all sorts of materials and styles, my favorite being the ones Timbuk2 produces. Decorate these bags with all manner of pins and schwag you accumulate from attending indie shows!

Headphones! Nothing screams “I love music!” more than a nice pair of hipster headphones. Try to avoid SkullCandy, as it has become a bit too mainstream. Lesser known electronics manufacturers like Denon or high-tech fancy ones like Bose are both fine, however. If you can find them, a stylish pair of vintage headphones will work wonders. They’d probably raise your indie cred over 9000.

Indie Fashion Don’ts

Whatever you do, don’t shop at retailers like Abercrombie, American Eagle, Hollister, or Aeropostale. These stores represent everything the indie culture opposes. Even if American Eagle tries to lure you in with some Foals tunes, you must resist!

Indie Music

The most important part of being indie is becoming a fan of the music. If you dislike indie music then stop reading, because I’m trying my hardest not to turn you into an indie poser. While technically indie music can be any independently produced music, I am going to focus more on indie pop (twee) and indie rock.

Some bands to get you started are of Montreal, The Shins, Neutral Milk Hotel, MGMT, and Architecture in Helsinki.

Finding local and lesser known bands is a must. Luckily we have the internet! Make use of websites such as thesixtyone, the pretentious pitchforkmedia, StumbleUpon, and even Last.fm.

Offline, you have other options. Watch MTV U for some ideas (though most of the music is garbage like Eminem) and listen to college radio stations. If you live in any decent urban area you will probably have some indie radio stations as well.

Become a part of the local music scene! Even if it’s not indie music, it’s a start. If there is no scene to become a part of, then I’m sorry, but you need to get the hell out of that podunk town. Move to a college town or large urban city like New York. You can’t live in a better indie locale.

Indie Personality

Next you need to work on the indie attitude. First and foremost, never refer to yourself as indie. Doing so will cost you major indie cred. Don’t mention that you read an online guide on how to become indie either. That’s just lame to talk about.

The indie attitude is all about having a cool demeanor. Be random, be fun! BE YOURSELF, but cooler. If you are quiet and introverted, don’t just be the shy kid in the corner. Be the mysterious badass, like Clint Eastwood! If you’re extraverted and outgoing, then just talk to other people! If the conversation turns to music, then use this as an opportunity to drop names of indie bands to establish some indie cred.

Learning an instrument helps, especially if you’re quiet. You can just bring your guitar places and strum a few chords. The chicks or studs will be all over you, I guarantee it.

Parting Message

Hopefully now you have some idea of what being indie is about. Just remember, never refer to yourself as indie, let your new indie threads do the talking. Head to some indie shows and make a lot of indie friends!Always look indie in the process!

Vaya con Dios!

The Eyes Have It

Last time in my current series I touched on mostly the hair as we begin our journey of men’s fashion, head to toe. The next topic to discuss are the eyes. As I have stated before, the eyes are most important to fashion for if there were no eyes there would be no need for fashion. The eyes of women are often decorated and adorned with different with different types of cosmetic products. Women wear eye liner, eye shadow, eye shadow primer/shadow base, brow liner and mascara. It doesn’t stop there. There are several different colors available in most all the products mentioned, especially in shadows and there are even different mediums available such as powder, gel and cream. This article is not about women though. It is about men.

Obviously, men do not normally decorate nor wear makeup on their eyes. Apart from Andrej Pejic, Bill Kaulitz, crossdressing men and other rare androgynous males you will not find one. Why is this? Are men not creative or artistic? Are they lazy and boring or fear the unknown? Do they think it will instantly turn them gay or into a woman? Maybe. In this case, ignorance is not bliss. Men used to decorate or apply makeup to their eyes as much or more than women. I should not have to tell you that the men of many ancient peoples such as the Egyptians, the Greeks and Babylonians wore some form of makeup. Does that make it right? Not necessarily. I was reading a brief history of makeup on 4VOO’s web site which can be found here. The company 4VOO is one of two major companies that specifically market makeup and skin care products for men. The other company is Menaji. 4VOO is quick to point out that men wearing eye makeup is mentioned in Ezekiel 23:40. However, I am not convinced that doing so is portrayed in a positive manner when read in context of the chapter. After searching the matter out, I find just as many teachers of the Word that denounce use of makeup (for men or women) as there are who instruct it is fine in moderation. I say search it out, pray and decide for yourself.

For those men who seek to venture out and be different there is very little choice in men only products for use on the eye. 4VOO has eye liner as well as lash and brow styling glaze which sounds a lot like mascara but no eye shadow. Menaji only offers eye gel for the eyes to give them a more “youthful” look. I did not find any eye shadow specifically aimed at men but then again, with so many offerings by companies who normally target women, why bother? These products would be the same for either male or female. At one time, M.A.C. Cosmetics stated on their web site that their products can be used by either men or women.

Eye Conclude

We probably won’t see the vast majority of men sporting smoky eyes anytime soon but for those men who are less adventurous than Bill Kaulitz you can still benefit from the basics of eye makeup. Eye creams and concealers can help with those dark circles and puffiness. A bit of eye liner can give that extra definition and enhancement you are looking for. Who knows. One day you may decide to take that next step.

With the status of the economy, it’s so hard to indulge in buying clothes especially branded ones. Don’t be a fashion victim by buying everything you see in the market today. You don’t need to splurge on buying so many things which you don’t need.

When buying mens dress shirts need to buy the basic, those that can be teamed up with different tops. It’s an inexpensive way of investing clothes which is very applicable these days. Every guy has his own different sense of fashion and style. These are things you need to have inside your closet, it’s a must for every guy to have them paired with a white shirt:

You should have at least one cardigan inside your closet. You should have at any of the following colors.

o Black

o Grey

o Navy

o Green

o Blue

o Pastel

You need it especially during cold months. It can be a good pair with any blazer of your choice. There are also organically made cardigans which you can try if you are very much inclined with nature.

A striped blazer can possess a conservative look especially during events.

Shorts tailored or not can be for a casual wear. It’s trendy and comfortable. You can wear it during summer time when the weather is hot.

A rack jacket is best for hip and high low get up. It is very simple and can be worn in malls.

It’s best with denim. White shirts are perfect for any kind of shirt; it can also be paired with any pants or shorts. It’s one of the safest things to have inside your closet.

Fashion and style is a long conversation especially when you are discussing about men’s fashion trend. No two people have the same choice of clothes and styles. When you want to be trendy, you should always look at the mirror and check

If the things you are wearing still look good on you, you might just want to go with the flow without checking if it’s suitable for you. You should check out some magazines and the web for some time to ensure that you are on the right track. Your indulgence to fashion can be addicting so you need to take a break form thinking what to wear for the next 24 hours. Though there are lots of fashion site today, some of the people can not find the things they are looking for.

You should check out the web for new things you should know for reference and guide. You wills surely find everything you need to know without having to spend much. Your looks merely depend on how you believe in yourself and not with the trend.

In this vibrant world everything is changing rapidly. A lot of changes are seen in a short span of time. So is to the mens fashion world too. A popular men’s fashion accessory that has remained unscathed for the past few decades is the neckties. Men’s Ties like designer neckties, luxury silk ties are not above the changing course of action. Although one may be unadventurous regarding ties, it would still be shrewd to keep with the contemporary men’s fashion trends.
The clandestine lies in the contrast, designer neckties, luxury silk ties, men’s ties are pivotal to create a nice contrast breaking the straightforwardness of an emblematic white shirt and corporate suit. Keeping this in mind, the manufacturers have fashioned gargantuan assortment of ties in dissimilar colors and prints. To meet your expectation, a wide variety of Mens necktie in diverse color and design are made obtainable.

You need not have a crazy approach to know which Designer neckties would be up-to-the-minute or not. The broad-spectrum vogue will practically be the same. Simple Designer neckties those are more masculine and grounded. Narrow ties; on the contrary, maintains absolute outfit while solid neckties ties will keep your look matched. They are tactful enough and possess a lot of merit to augment your overall outfit.

Because of remaining neckties safe and sound for the last half century, designers focus more on alluring textured men’s ties for more excitement, especially for next season. These Italian neckties are capable of accomplishing things with modification like the grenadine tie.
Almost imperceptible trappings Miniscule is perfect for the rising professional in the corporate setting. Knit or wool neckties are a bit frank with their simple heftiness. They are more casual but it’s a road in the fashion world that is less treaded.

Textured neckties give more freedom than other Silk Ties. You can even get away with no contrast by putting on a shirt and tie with the same color without looking like a crayon. If you would like to be looked at better chic this is the need of hours put on any textured ties that make you trendier.
Today’s ties are bough of the customary bow tie. This elder neckpiece is envisaged to rematerialize soon probably the next season. The fact is that the ties are seemed as indispensable accessory for any corporate executive, while the bow tie is slowly rising to the level of best choice of classic man’s for any occasion. Now, you don’t have to take out your tux to wear bowties.